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Dating over 30 - what has been your experience? : askwomenover30
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What is good dating advice for women over 30? : askwomenover30
I've also lived in four different sating in that span of time so I'm just starting to finally establish myself in my city of choice now. Link to our Wiki People who are happily partnered in relationships are also encouraged to participate. Posts should request advice or drive discussion. Do not post pictures or ask questions looking for affirmation of your appearance or body features. If you have any questions about the moderation or ovee actions of moderators, you must send them to the mod team via modmail.
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Dating in your 30s is weird : dating
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